Heather,

I didn't think you were ignoring me, don't worry.

Sometimes time away from the boards helps doesn't it?

You know, if you feel you need a friend (wish I were closer) join groups, join clubs, take a class...put yourself out where you will meet other women....and then strike up a conversation with someone who seems interesting. Having a good friend is something we all need....I don't know what I would have done without my best friend, she's an absolute God send!!! I've been there for her many, many times when she's needed me....but she's also always there for me....no questions asked!

It's funny...I can so relate to your comment about your styles of living not meshing. My H and I aren't quite like that....we live well together most of the time, but I'm a very independent person by nature....so when he's on a field trip to fix a plane, or working the shifts where I only really see him right before he falls sleep or on the weekends.....it's so peaceful for me.

Here's a thought for ya about the house too....if you wonder if he'll put the ring back on, why don't you simply ask him to? Let him know that building this house is a symbol of full recommitment to your M to you and let him know that his wearing his ring would be just as symbolic to you. Don't wonder...just ask hon, when the timing is right....and you aren't yelling at each other Just joshing!

Glad to see you back here. You do the work on yourself that you need to....and hey! If you need a friend e-mail me.

GEL

Well behaved women rarely ever make history!