11 yr old called back and asked her once again if she got married? W finally told her that she did a couple months ago and asked if I knew. 11 yr old said no and then wife said that 11yr is now probably going to tell me. daughter said that she won't and why should she care if I know about it or not. Wife changed the subject to cause another fight with 11yr. My big question is... Why should she care if I know or not? She divorced me... She got on with her life.... Why does she feel the need not to let me know about this?
Strange...... Im not really bothered by it. Im a little hurt. but Im not destroyed by her actions. I think she feels guilty, and is not to confortable with her decision. She's sick. She didn't send anything for her Daughters for Christmas. SHe told D that they since they didn't want anything to do with her new life, and don't respect her decisions that she feels she doesn't have to have anything to do with them. 11 yr old argued and tryed to explain to her how shes feeling thoughout this whole mess and W showed her that she doesn't really care, as long as they live with me, She doesn't have to do anything but send child support checks. Daughter hung up the phone in such a hurtful state. I had to hold on to her and comfort her for about a half hour, reassuring her that I love her and Im sure deep down her mother loves her but she's sick and really don't know whats she's doing.
