I encouraged my son to go to his mom's family Christmas party this past Saturday (I was not invited). My son was hoping OM would not be with his mom even though I told him to expect it. I understand he was there all of 5 minutes when he stormed out. I was having lunch with neighbors at a restaurant when the W called blaming me for how he acted. I told her he was lashing out because of what SHE WAS DOING. He says he tries to talk to her every day about coming home to put our family back together-she cries, but it falls on deaf ears.
My son told me later it was the worst day of his life. I belive it. My W even had the nerve to call me from OM's cell. I called her back, left 3 different messages for her and OM and telling them both that they are wrong for what they are both doing. It is wrong nine ways to Sunday. I told W that OM DID NOT wait 27 years for her. He married, had 2 kids and divorced plus other women himself. I hope the messages i left had some impact on both of them as I never called OM before.
I can honestly say I have tried everything and will leave this marriage March of next year knowing that I gave her every opportunity to come home to work on the marrriage but she has her head stuck so far up her a$$ for this guy she may never pull it out.
I cannot and will not be there for her once the divorce is final. I have made that clear to her on several occasions already. This MLC is a nightmare, and this year has been the worst of my life.
