Good to see you doing so well. A year ago you were nothing but a ball of anger. It's good for you to take care of your girls, but take care of yourself too.
Regarding the weight thing. I think gaining/losing too much weight is never a good sign. I know when I was most depressed about my M I pretty much stopped eating and lost a lot of weight. On the other hand, my H definitely gained quite a bit of weight during that same time period. So I guess it depends on the person and how you respond to stress.
