Well. XW decided to call girls after a 3 week silence. Talk only about herself. 11 yr old told her she missed her and can't concentrate in school. said she's getting a tutor to help her. Xw told her shes has a better life now and girls should be happy for her. This is NOT what 11 yr old wanted to hear, here she was trying to tell her mother about her pain and problem and all mom could do is tell her shes better off.
16 yr old called her and gave her both barrels. told her how dare her tell her sister what she did and that she sould have her head examined. XW said maybe its a bad time and hung up on her. This put 16 yr in a frenzy. cursing up like a sailor, telling me mom is now dead to her.
Quite an emotional evening to say the least. How can I get this to stop?
I have tried over and over to explain to her that she does more damage than good when she calls and I get knowhere. Im tired of these girls minds being played with. They do not need this.
