Thanks for a reply. My Divorce agreement states she has to contact me when she wants to see the kids. Since she lives in Ga and I in Ill. This is not happening. SHe has no desire to come up and see them and I will not let them go there. SHe does pay 1100 a month child support, But sometimes money is not enough. These girls need a mom in there lives. SHe is missing out on so much, The oldest went to her first Homecoming last weekend. SHe looked stunning in her dress. I was the only one there watching her walk with her date to his car as he opened the door for him. After they left, I had such a hurt in my heart, Her mother should have been there to see this. Thats one of thse moments that will never repeat itself.
I have been trying to write her every weekend giving her reports on the girls lives. How their doing in school, who their friends are, Little things that moms should be aware of. Sometimes I get a respond. Most of the time.....Nothing. The little one was having a bad time with this whole thing the other night she called Mom and left 4 messages. By the time she returned her call, I had already calmed her down, After the call it was like she pealed the scab away and the wound was reopened. Especally when she talked to her for only 5 min. Said she had go, more important things to do I guess. Which left me at square one with getting her calmed down again. It sucks! SHe has NO idea what she's putting these two through, and knowone can tell her the damage she's doing. But... I have to continue to do what I have always done. THese girls need to be reassured everyday that I love them and I will not let any harm come to them. I guess they will start to pull away from Mom, Especally since she shows No interest in their lives. Oh Well....Her loss I will continue with the e-mails. Even if she doesn't return them, In a way Im hoping, Maybe one of them will get through to her, and shes will realize the loss she's experienceing.
