hey Jag, there you are. I also like to assume all sorts of things, when we go by the avenue that leads to OP's home and my H looks that way I "just know" he is thinking of her. He could be remembering something... or he could be thinking about how he left the iron on.
Not making light of your sitch, I also get the "he's prob thinking of her" vibes, but we'll have to choose choice B. he/she is WITH ME. It took them a while to come back to us, it might take them a while to totally exorcize the OP out of their mind. So let's say he/she is thinking of her, we could get defensive.. or remind them, as John said, with a kiss, a hug, that we are the ones there for them.
Patience is the game, hope you guys are doing great)))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
