Just thought you'd all like to know that things have been going better in bed. Things aren't perfect yet, but we have a huge advantage over many people here in that a) we have a lot of emotional closeness, b) she does have some desire, and c) she loves me and wants badly to make me happy.

I've been doing the right things to fan the flames of desire in her, and she's been letting me know that she wants me. She also took a women's herbal remedy for low libido, and it worked, at least on the night she took it .

We also have one area in common too that is ripe for exploration: a desire to play dress-up/role-playing games. Many possibilities come to mind there. So, while it's early days still, I believe we will get through this, and create a far higher level of intimacy in our marriage (and have fun doing it).