Not sex-starved, but ...

[Sandy_wants_to_try]

That was truly beautful, Andrew.
She sounds like a wonderful woman.

I was a sexually unaware woman. I wanted to. I just couldn't get... warmed up? Once I did, I enjoyed it, but I would never initiate. This a while ago, BTW.. I was very young. But perhaps what I did was what your wife could do?

The thing is I'm not overtly religious. I'm spiritual and believe in God, but I go to church perhaps 5 times a year.
I pray by myself, but not in the bible way.

I'm wondering if there is a conflict between what scripture says and my suggestions. If there is, she may not like them. I can see how someone who is very religous might think the stuff I'm suggesting is porn. In my opinion it's not. It's erotic.
However, we are talking about books and comics that are about ML.

You see, if she's reading about this stuff on a daily basis, it means she's thinking about it on a daily basis.
Once you think about it on a daily basis, you start feeling sensual. The thing is, this comes with all sorts of things, which the church is against, like masturbation, vanity, etc...
I can see how this might be difficult for her.

If she already feels sensual and this comes down to a communication issue, I think the suggestion about making a back-rub or something a sign is a great one.