Those are some good things to think about. I may well be able to use at least some of those of those suggestions.
Sandy hit the nail on the head when she said that W has a low sexual awareness. This is my W through and through - she just doesn't think about it most of the time, whereas I think about it all the time. And she is usually desire after arousal. Maybe we will have to come up with some way in which we can create the environment for sex and then she can initiate, or something like that.
One thing we used to do that we don't any more is cuddle in bed naked, without it necessarily leading to anything. That was always nice. Oh that there was a magic wand to change her into a HD person, but there isn't. I know you can identify with that, GEL.
