------------------------------------------------------- She tells me she does feel sexual sometimes, but doesn't know how to express it. It's a great big inhibition for her. This is the crux of the problem - the inhibition (as well as the LD). I told her that for the sake of our marriage, she needed to work on overcoming it, and doing some things that were outside of her comfort zone if necessary.
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Did she say why she has this inhibition? Is it a morals thing? Or is she perhaps afraid you'll say no or maybe is she embarrassed about her body?
I don't mean to say you're at fault here Andrew, what I'm trying to do is see it from her position, because you must agree, that it would be great for her to do this of her own volition, right?
May it be eternal while it lasts.
My sitch
Me: 36
H:34
M: 5 years
Bomb: 03/14/06
