Andrew,
You didn't seem to want to answer my first post, but I feel the need to ask you another question.

What have YOU been doing lately to make her feel sexy???
To feel like she can bring these things up & to take away the daily hum-drums of taking care of the house, children and you.?

I hope this works for you... but seriously, until you realize you can't control her feelings (which is what you're trying to do), you're not going to get what you need.

She needs to get there herself... not you pushing her towards it.

May it be eternal while it lasts. My sitch Me: 36 H:34 M: 5 years Bomb: 03/14/06