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It just doesn't seem to click with her how important it is to me, and how desperately I need her to be interested in and anticipating LM.

-Andrew



Andrew,
Would you be content if she agreed to having sex more often because YOU need it, or would it be better if she was genuinely interested in increasing frequency?

I asking because I wonder if "I need it and if you loved me, you'd want it more often too" has been your approach to all of this. If I'm way off base, let me know. That's how I understood it, from your post.

If you would prefer that she were interested in increasing frequency, no matter what your needs are, maybe you could try some sort of sexual awakening. The thing is, and this is where MrsNOP's questions come in, if there is a lot of baggage, she may not do this JUST for you. But she may for herself.

I did this in my 20's. It started with just sexy cartoons, semi-erotic books, etc...
Reading about it, awakens sensual feelings. You could read together or she might prefer to read alone (this is mostly for herself... not for you, you see? - you just get extra benefits from the whole thing).

What do you think of this suggestion? Have you tried anything like this? And how did it go?

May it be eternal while it lasts. My sitch Me: 36 H:34 M: 5 years Bomb: 03/14/06