getting what I wanted but no liking it

[cinemanymph]

LL,

Just wanted to jump in here and make a few comments.

something that hasn't happend since and the blame for that was eventually taken by his buddie who I expect as much from

Does your H hang on to friends that are detrimental to your marriage?

there's no stopping him and all it takes is for me to run out to the store or to a PTO meeti

Sounds like there is more than mere interest going on here.

I thought I could deter him by first talking to him about it, second making it more difficult by him having to call and then making it even more difficult by placing a code on pay per views thus leading him to have to actually speak to a person since he doesn't know the code. Well I went to a PTO meeting last night and low and behold "just pumpin" was purchased last night

If he is determined to view porn, all attempts to stop him are useless, and in fact your attempts to stop him may be feeding his obsession. Your energy is best spent finding out how you can help yourself in this sitch.

$10.99 seems pretty ridiculous to me that someone would spend that money for a one shot deal...wouldn't it be more cost effective to go to the video store and rent something you could at least watch a few times to get your moneys worth.

Logistics just don't enter into it. The rituals associated with "illegal" activity are as important as the activity itself.

LL, have you thought about looking into porn addiction?