Quote: Does he physically avoid you when you're together? Not anymore
If you snuggle up to him on the couch does he stiffen and move away? Are you initiating any of these things or are things so uncomfortable that you are waiting on him to do so?
I've given up on initiating due to years of rejection and humiliation...decided it was better to not try and be sad than to try and be mad.
If you have grabbed him for a hug or kiss, does he reject you?
Depends on when/where and the delivery...I don't feel like I can just plan one on him whenver however I feel the urge.
What would you say are your husband's emotional needs? Conversation? Companionship? Expressions of respect?
Expressions of respect (though I don't feel very respected) H's LL's are (if that's what your getting at Acts of service, words of affirmation, physical touch, gifts, quality time. Mine are in order quality time, words of affirmation, physical touch, acts of service, gifts.
You know what makes you feel close to him, do you know what makes him feel close to you?
After 18 years I can honestly say that I no longer know this man.
