Quote: I'm getting what I had always complained about not getting...trouble is in my eyes I'm not...it wasn't just about a lack of sex it was about the lack of physical intimacy (cuddling on the couch, massages, hugs, long kisses that lead to nothing but a warm feeling that maybe you'll do something about later that evening etc, talking, connecting)...
am I screwed simply because I'm now getting screwed?
Does he physically avoid you when you're together? If you snuggle up to him on the couch does he stiffen and move away? Are you initiating any of these things or are things so uncomfortable that you are waiting on him to do so? If you have grabbed him for a hug or kiss, does he reject you?
What would you say are your husband's emotional needs? Conversation? Companionship? Expressions of respect?
You know what makes you feel close to him, do you know what makes him feel close to you?
