I want to add that I know the time is here for us to get to the root of our problems. And, NO, I wouldn't go jumping back into anything.
He asked me to move out. THAT was his choice. And now that I'm out, it won't be so easy to get me back. And I think whatever happens needs be done carefully. Work on getting things between us repaired. As well as make it a new R. Bring new things in.
I'm just at a loss right now as to how to do that and what to do. re: cut him off vs. remain connected (for now).
Maybe that explains why I haven't said anything to him as of yet. I'm just gliding along. I mean for pete's sake - I only moved out 5 days ago!! Tis situation is still NEW to everyone.