OK, WL, I understand what you're saying.

I'm prone to err on the side of caution. I feel like this is a very sensitive time and if handled improperly, could detrimentally effect things.

So, what do you all think I should do? I mean, it's not like "I" have been the one contacting him. He's been the one initiating all contact with me for the last few days.

Besides that - all I can think is that since I'm gone, he COULD have OW around now - and yet HE is choosing to spend the time with me. That has been my prevailing thought. I'm not entirely sure that pushing him away at this time would be best. However - ya'all know I've been wrong before, so maybe my way of thinking is incorrect and ideas and suggestions are of course always needed!!!