Don't have much time - just wanted to post this email I awoke to from SO...
"I have to say that I had a very hard time holding in all of my emotions when I got there last night, I know this is hard, and I made the wrong decision, and will not be able to live with all this stuff going on in my head. I'll talk more later, gotta compose myself for the rest of this show today, still no sleep last night, I hope I can sleep today for a bit before tonight."
He asked if he could come by last night...brought dinner, it was the first he'd seen the kids since Friday. Then, I kind of "encouraged" him to leave once the 2 little ones were in bed. He also helped D8 set up some things in her room.
I actually haven't said anything to him about this email - been extremely busy with new kid/school schedule this AM. Just thought I'd post it for everyone's comments/suggestions.