I'm trying. Think I'm doing a pretty good job of being noble, respectful, and gracious under the circumstances, if I may say so myself. I never realized I could be so damned strong and unreactive (is that a word?).
But then you have him constantly saying "This isn't what I want." and "This hurts me (him) more than I will ever know." or "This isn't what he wanted for his life or his kids." And moping around...WTH, dude? This was YOUR choice.
