In My Cupboard, Lucky Charms & Fruit Loops

[RBinBR]

That's the thing, isn't it, NM? We sometimes think that our S's and SO's are hurting us, but they aren't happy at all. Their actions are tearing themselves up inside.

Stick to the no contact thing -- I know that my W doesn't "get it" either. She thinks that we are still going to be "best friends" or that I'm basically going to be her "brother" or something -- no comprehension of what is really going on.