Lillieperl

Happy anniversary to you. <happy and sad>

We got off on the wrong foot in 2002 with me being newly widowed and him being an active alcoholic.
I told him I wanted to zero out the odometer and start from scratch.


Yes those were tough odds Lil. I hope zeroing out the odometer really works for you and bf.

Less sex now than back then
Funny, sad, or what ever, that is about what is happening here to a lesser degree.

We lost two beloved dogs,
Sorry about the dogs. (((((Lil))))) I know how much they can mean to a person. BB started taking Prozac when one of hers died. It was a sad time for me too.

His twins were just starting high school; now they're both away at college.
And I am sure they are in a better position in life for you interacting with them.

medical, therapy etc)
Some of that here. I guess common problems effect many of us forum friends.

His mom is needing to get out of the bar business
I hope that improves your R with your bf.

Being with him is Spiritual Boot Camp for me
That is a nice way to put it. I am happy to see you consider it a growing experience.

Why am I still here? Because I am, I guess.
Yes, why are so many still here.

Lil, you being here has helped in many ways. More than I can post here.

I highly value your input, advice, and an opportunity to to read about some of your life experiences.

Lou