Less sex now than back then. BF seeing therapist for a year-- has changed him a lot for the better. A month ago I started going with him to the therapist every other week.
I told him I wanted to zero out the odometer and start from scratch. We got off on the wrong foot in 2002 with me being newly widowed and him being an active alcoholic.
His twins were just starting high school; now they're both away at college. We lost two beloved dogs, one to death, one ran away during a rainstorm. We have another dog we both love very much. His mom is needing to get out of the bar business; she'll soon be 89. We've been through heart surgery (him), shingles (me), job loss (him), alanon (me), therapy (both, separately and together), workshops (both), choir concerts (both), three trips to see my husband's grown son & family at Christmas (they ADORE bf)... lots of water over and under the dam (damn).
Many changes in the last four years. Being with him is Spiritual Boot Camp for me, and I pretty much have to grow or die. So far I've grown.
