I wanted to stop by and personally thank you for your kind words your way of thinking is so wonderful,,, I do not know you well yet,, but from the advice you gave me you seem to be a beautiful, caring human being. I hope, and I am sure that with all your new knowledge your wife and you will celebrate many, many years together.

It is amazing how something this painful turns out beauty when we harness it and learn from it...
God bless...