I started to read a little of your last posts ((SAW your first post in piecing)))) and I am interested in reading more,, One question I would like to ask you and you can answer me when you have time... How long did it take you to let the "OP" and a thoughts be gone? I have forgiven and to be perfectly honest my M is better than ever but the "OW" and thoughts of the affair still haunt me not daily anymore but enough for me to want to ask for your insight... Thank you and sorry for the hijack... God bless...