Well, GH, we will come with you, even if you start piecing Which I believe you are doing, correct? I am proud of you. And I as part of your loyal cheerleading squad, look forward to hearing about the x2 and x3 and on and on until it's such a normal occurence you don't remember what it's like NOT to... Anyway, GH, I just want to say that it might be healthy for you to let go of "Infidelity" as the cornerstone of your sitch, and to take on that your R is evolving. BTW, I am very proud of all the work you have done. Keep at it. The P/A thing you have struggled with is NASTY if you are on the other side. My birth mother was P/A with me last week, wanted something and couldn't be straight with me about it. Makes me not want to be around her. So don't ever let "normal" take you back there. So what would it look like to have "normal" be a little "spicy" once in a while? Bring some surprise in to your life tonight, K? Rooting for you, as always.

PositivelyListening
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When one door of happiness closes, another one opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. - Helen Keller