Guy, KFM was/is one of my all-time favs! I like the Enter the Dragon skit. Anyway, yes, enough of all that.
My biggest problem, and it's a pretty good one to have (assuming there isn't something I don't know...damn that paranoia) is that things are TOO normal, i.e. just like they were one or two years ago when all this supposedly started in my W's head. I am fighting to break the old cycles and I THINK it's working but it's hard not to be afraid "normalcy" when it seemed like that's what got us here in the first place.
I think by virtue of all we have gone through, and at least my growth, should make it impossible to ever go back to the "old" marriage but I still guard against that daily. It's a struggle to say the least.
