Quote: Have you asked openly what you can do for your W in day to day life to make things for her better? I'm just curious, because when you do for her, it's natural for her to want to do for you, and if she's not, then it seems you might not be reaching her where you should.
That's the key, really. No judgement on anyone's sitch but my own, but once I started doing that as best I could, coupled with eliminating all A/OM talk and all R talk she didn't initiate or wasn't interested in, I've seen a HUGE difference in my W.
Realized what I was doing much of the time was meeting the needs I WANTED her to have instead of the ones she actually had.
You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. -- Inigo Montoya, 'The Princess Bride'
