GH, This tea thing you're onto seems to be a big hit on the board. Geez, give her the whole pot! I wanted to introduce you to a book that might be helpful. It was the first one I read when my W dropped the "I don't love you" bomb. It helped alot to see what depression can do to a persons thinking and how it can F*** up their life and the R. It's called "Depression Fallout: The Impact of Depression on Couples and What You Can Do to Preserve the Bond" by Anne Sheffield. I've been meaning to give you the title but, you know, life gets in the way! So here it is.
I wanted to introduce you to a book that might be helpful. It was the first one I read when my W dropped the "I don't love you" bomb. It helped alot to see what depression can do to a persons thinking and how it can F*** up their life and the R. It's called "Depression Fallout: The Impact of Depression on Couples and What You Can Do to Preserve the Bond" by Anne Sheffield. I've been meaning to give you the title but, you know, life gets in the way! So here it is. 
