Quote: I asked her a few times what it would take for her to "do something" about all this and she said it wouldn't take anything. I also told her that she needed to not drink, or do SOMETHING so that every Monday didn't go that way.
Instead of syaing what she needs to 'not' do, which we don't internalize anyway because we don't hear 'no' in sentences, why not ask her what you CAN do together to spend Sunday differently? You only break a habit or behavior by replacing it with something else.
