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I suppose if it were not so dramatic I would just think this was one more time (or set of times) that I need to learn to listen, validate, comfort and just allow her to move on. Maybe that IS all that is required of me, I don't know.




I think you nailed it, bro. I don't think women EVER want to be told HOW or WHY unless they ask first for something very specific. I've always had a hard time understanding that, cause if I talk about a problem, and someone knows how to fix, buddy I want to know what the fix is.

Sometimes I think many women really don't care if something is "fixed" or "broken"...they just want to know you're there.


You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. -- Inigo Montoya, 'The Princess Bride'