We want them to feel bad and ashamed and horrible for what they have done. But this is a BIG one that we need to let go of. As a christian, we must lean on God because it is He that will convict your H, not us. It is not our part to judge, but to help correct.
Even though my H is back with me, I still have this feeling of needing him to feel bad and guilty from what he did to me.
However, that time will come I promise, and if by some small chance it never does, well he will be judged accordingly by our Maker.
On a better note, it was nice to hear that your H was being nicer to you. Was there anything different you had been doing recently for this to happen do you think?
okay, I need to catch up on the rest of your thread.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
