My H informed me today that he will be out of town for Thanksgiving and in his email said something to the effect of "..I'll be out of town for Thanksgiving but I'm sure you don't want to know where I will be so I'll spare you that, but I won't be spending any money as I have none"...yada, yada, yada! My guess is that he is either going to her hometown out of state, or back down south like last year when he basically lied about where he was going and ended up in a motel spending what little money we had with Ow!! Well, no matter where he's going the bottomline is that he is choosing her over his S4. He could have had some quality (extra) time w/ S4 over the holiday weekend, but NO! Well, I wrote him back a response to his long-winded Thanskgiving email and said "I won't be in town for Thanksgiving...would have been enough information". He wrote back that he wasn't trying to be confrontational. WHATEVER!
Yes, it drives me crazy that H can come and go as he pleases, never has to wake up for middle of the night "mommy duty", rarely has to deal with S4's tantrums (although he has pulled a few w/ H recently which I'm glad about - he needs to see how hard S4 can be and how much he acts out).
I am exhausted.
Ciao ~
Monica
My sitch: Me 40 H 30 M 8 yrs 1 S5.5 Bomb Oct 2005 Sep Nov 2005 H w/ Ow I filed for LS June 2007 H responded w/ D 2007 I have sole P custody, joint L Just need to take care of Final Judgement papers
Well, no matter where he's going the bottomline is that he is choosing her over his S4. He could have had some quality (extra) time w/ S4 over the holiday weekend, but NO! Well, I wrote him back a response to his long-winded Thanskgiving email and said "I won't be in town for Thanksgiving...would have been enough information". He wrote back that he wasn't trying to be confrontational. WHATEVER! 
