I hope Thanksgiving this year proves to be a happy one for you.
Doesn't it just erk you when the Dads think they can just do whatever they want whenever without permission, but we have to ask or beg to do anything? They are a parent too, they are not a babysitter. ugh.
well, I want to say that my H also said during the A that he always thought the OW was the "one" for him. They dated 6 months before he even met me, so that was really hard for me to deal with. I could have handled it better, had it been someone totally new, but this was someone he had been friends with in the past and dated, but then just went their separate ways since they were young. Well, I know that she still texts him and he back, but he has told me that he wants ME to be his wife forever now, so I really think the A is over, but I want her out of our lives for good. Hopefully he'll end it for real.
So my point is, even though he thinks she is "perfect" for him now, he might still yet see (as time goes by) that she really ISN'T perfect.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
