oh, and just to let you know, I found out about the OW right before mothers day. I laid in my bed that whole day. My H actually made dinner that night (we have 2 young children too and luckily he stayed and helped with the kids during the 2 weeks I was in major depression after finding out).
Hope your birthday was better than expected. Next year will be even better!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."