Hi, I have been reading through your sitch and I am pissed at your H right now... Sorry, but I am... If my H pulled some of the crap that your is --- well shoot, who am I kidding I would still want him back, but I would be really mad at him...
He absolutely is taking no responsibility for S4 and that makes me really mad... The schedule thing is sooo important that not only have I spoken to my H about it, but I have spoken to his parents about it too. I have DD18months on an awesome schedule and if anyone messes it up, they are going to hear it from me... I worked my butt off to get her where she takes her nap - same time every day and bedtime, same time every night with no fighting about it... I must say, once I explained to my H why it is so important, he really was cooperative and so have his parents...
Ow is an as*hole. They all are. She doesn't have a kid and a closeknit family is not going to ever allow her to understand how important raising a wellrounded child is... No one without a child can know this, I am sorry... She is a selfish bitc*... And ignorant to boot...
Sorry I am so mad, but this just takes the cake. Yeah, my H left me. he is not living with any Ow, but they are still "friends" which I cannot stand... And I totally agree that until divorced, children should not meet Ow.. Even though my H said they were just freinds I said, no way do I want Mia to meet that whore... Sorry, but that is exactly how I feel.
I cannot express my opinions to you because they will sound like all my friends sound - leave the fuc*er... But I can't say any of that cuz I haven't left my own fuc*er... I know what you are going through except my H does not live with Ow, and they rarely see one another cuz she lives in whitetrashville...
Sorry - you got me going there... Chin up... You will get through this. It sucks though, doesn't it...
