Hey Monica...been awhile since I posted something to your thread. I just skimmed through this and it seems like he is just constantly backsliding on his *responsibilities. To me...it looks like you just need to brain dump him if possible and stop trying so hard to either please him or so compassion towards him...doesn't look like he is worth it right now. Focusing on tomorrow WITHOUT him and acting like you don't have a time constaint from him will more than likely relax you a little. I myself am trying to be consistant on NOT worrying about my XW and what she will think when she makes her GRAND once-a-week appearance here at the house.

Time to move forward like he doesn't exist, because obviously YOU don't exist to him...

Just my 2 cents worth.


Man who walks with BIG stick!