First off a question. What time does S4 go to bed? The reason I ask is that you get on the bb so late. How is that? You need to be getting your rest in order to cope with your life and deal with S4. If you are tired it all feels totally overwhelming. I usually try to be in bed by 10pm at the latest and I still feel tired.
Quote: I wonder if he will try to talk to me or act like our argument yesterday never happened. Do you have any suggestions on how I should specifically deal with him tomorrow?
Because of an incident that happened with my H last night I would say to you that if H wants to continue the argument ignore the fighting words but validate where you can. I know that it is hard but if, as your presence here indicates, your goal is to ultimately save your marriage then make sure that whatever you do/say keeps that goal in mind without being detrimental to your wellbeing.
But at the same time state your needs and make sure that H repsects your boundaries. I would also do this if he acts as if the argument did not happen. Communication is key to everything and by leading by an example (using a statement to indicate your feeelings or where you are about what he has said/done) then maybe he will be more open to communicating with you since it does not necessarily a fight.
This is the foundation that you want to have in place if you ever reconcile.
