Thanks for sharing your experience and insights with me. It's all so baffling to me.
My H hasn't returned my calls or email's today regarding S4 or child support payment. He hasn't called S4 for regular nightly call for 3 days! I'm getting anxious and worried and angry! But I haven't left any messages since 5:30pm requesting that he call me. I'm wondering if this is his way of punishing me for "trying to control" his R w/ S4 (by wanting to meet Ow first) or if he's having some sort of break down. Last week he kept telling me about his sleeplessness and crying in the middle of the night, and he didn't bother to show up or call on Saturday.
I am at my wits end. What do I do? He owes me money (child support) which I need to pay the rent AND I feel so terribly sad for S4.
I think I know what I have to do - seek help w/ legal separation so I can get this stuff in writing and within a legal framework. I'm just so busy and barely have time to get groceries.
Well, I am totally exhausted. I will write more tomorrow.
Monica
My sitch: Me 40 H 30 M 8 yrs 1 S5.5 Bomb Oct 2005 Sep Nov 2005 H w/ Ow I filed for LS June 2007 H responded w/ D 2007 I have sole P custody, joint L Just need to take care of Final Judgement papers
