How can you stand it? I am surprised that Ow puts up with it. I know you love H , but do you think he will ever make up his mind whether he wants you or Ow? It must be so hard for you knowing when he leaves that he is going home to Ow.
We still did things as a family for the first 3 months after H moved out. H & I continued as if we were still a couple except that he lived with MIL. I'm not sure what happened, but 3 months after he left he said it was too confusing for everyone so he ended it. I think I was putting too much pressure on him to recommitt to M again so he bolted! I hadn't found DBing at that time so I didn't realize I was making things worse.
Ever since then it has been a gradual detaching by H and now he treats me like a stranger. It's weird. I only talk to him either about d7 or finances. He has shut the door right now on me and I feel hopeless most of the time.
I just don't understand why the WAS feels that starting over is the best decision especially when children are involved.
