Forgot to mention from your previous post. I treat H as if everything is normal. I cook regularly, we talk all the time it's as if we ignore what is going on unless she is presurring him to end the situation.
He treats me respectfully and is very protective of me. He does my laundry and seems to feel bad when I am hurting but does nothing to try and fix the problem.. Don't forget Ow is their soul mate and new best friend and his very protective of me vilifying her. But other than that by all appearances we are a perfect couple in a perfect marriage. In fact our 7 year annivesary is today.
