Quote: The look on his face when he left this afternoon was sadness. I hope he starts remembering some of our good times.
I'm dealing with a lot of anger - I an so angry that he didn't do anything to try to save our marriage before he bailed. He says he did, but that's B.S. And he's passed up every chance in the past year to try with me.
My H when away also looked like sh*t warmed over, so unkempt and withdrawn. He needs to get away from his own anger and blame before he remembers the good times, before he thinks about mending things up w/you. THe way I see it , Ow is their "new" chance to have a working R, one where they cant' fail and are the knights in shining armour, that's the main reason they have those harlots around. But you can't fool all the people all the time, in time her real colors will show "wonderful people don't screw around w/ married men".
I pray he realizes soon he's in MLC, that he sees his attempts to "fix" the sitch by leaving won't heal him, he is has the misery w/him.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.