I also worry that when H takes d7 somewhere that OW will be there. So far he hasn't introduced her to our daughter, but only b/c C has advised against it.
My H will not go to MC, but did agree to go to C for our daughter . She doesn't like to go with him much and rarely sleeps over. I am hoping that maybe the C can "plant some seeds" in H's head about himself a bit. Maybe he will begin to see that a lot of our M problems stemmed from his own issues. C said she would like to break down some of H's walls! I pray that she can b/c this could possibly help to bring us back together.
We had our daughter's family birthday party together yesterday, I too hope that maybe he had some thoughts of what he gave up and made him think about what he is missing as far as having a functioning family . It has been 1 year since we were all together as a family until yesterday. It was uncomfortable, but I tried to be hospitable and kind to H. He however treated me like the invisable woman. H didn't say much of anything to me, just talked to everyone else. He left early, before the birthday cake and didn't even eat any dinner! He said he wasn't hungry. I wonder if his stomach was upset b/c he was nervous being there ( typical of H) or did he leave early b/c he had late dinner plans with OW! God forgive OW was feeling left out yesterday b/c H was attending our daughter's birthday party without her!!!
