H & I hosted our daughter's birthday together last year too, even though he was already out of the house. He was also preoccupied and when the party was over he dashed out to his car and got right on his cell. Now I know he was on his way to see OW and couldn't leave fast enough!
So you H has been having an A for over a year as well? Are you like me and wonder every day if and when it will end? Everyone here says that OW is just a bandaid and that it will end , but when it is still going on after 1 year don't you wonder????
My goal is to have my H and family together again someday so this is why I am trying to be kind, listen better, and validate his feelings so that we can hopefully become friends and eventually together again.
Isn't it hard to keep focused on your goals when WAS says that they will never come back? My H is in a MLC I am almost certain of this . They say that you can't believe anything they say b/c they are so messed up and have convinced themselves that they don't love you anymore and blame you for everything! This is what I have to keep reminding myself of . Do you think your H is in a MLC?
