That's the link, it's worth reading all 6pgs of it.
IF he does smile and act normal with OP is because he is putting up a facade, as the article says, he is a rollercoaster of ups and downs. Whenever I saw my H, 9 out 10 he was all serious and depressed.
Don't try to get into his head, they are so volatile and unpredicable, one moment my H talks about us going away to the Bahamas, the next week spent hundreds on a trip to Vegas for the two of them (thank heavens, we ended up going together)
Dont' let his ambivalence drag you down too, if his head is scrambled you dont' need to feel that way either, you know what you want, keep detaching and work on yourself and making you and your son happy.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
