Wow, I can relate to those articles. What is the source? I sincerely hope that my H finds help for his depression. I rarely see him smile or laugh. Is it possible he only does these things w/ Ow? Well, whatever the case, I am usually friendly toward him and I am always a bit surprised when I still see him stuck in the past.
I got a free consult from an atty today and I think the best path for me right now is legal separation. That way I can get all the support and custody issues dealt with without actual divorce.
H was here for the first time in 1 week tonight. He seemed depressed. He brought up our financial sitch and said he wanted to see a financial mediator. I told him I spoke to an atty and we can go thru family court mediation (meaning legal sep). He agreed, but in general seemed down. I wonder if he's dying to get divorced or if he's still ambivalent.
I'm exhausted.
Monica
My sitch: Me 40 H 30 M 8 yrs 1 S5.5 Bomb Oct 2005 Sep Nov 2005 H w/ Ow I filed for LS June 2007 H responded w/ D 2007 I have sole P custody, joint L Just need to take care of Final Judgement papers
