Quote: Just curious if there are any women here who have been the ones who cheated?
sure isn't something I want to claim and I never, ever thought I would but I did. I think for some of the same reasons as you. I felt in my husbands' eyes, that I was probably the lowest thing for him to consider in his day to day life. Not important to him......KWIM?
To top it off, he was doing a "good" thing by being up front and honest with me but I don't know how many times I heard about the women at work and how they were hitting on him and of course was expected to be calm, etc.
He was going through a semi MLC I think - going out a LOT again, and once again, women hitting on him and him telling me all about it.....
and me, sitting at home, taking care of our D, running and losing weight, him getting jealous and not complementing me, but instead berating me basically because I HAD to be doing it for someone besides him.......how about me?
And so there's our nasty story - one I can't talk to ANYONE about in real life - which BTW also sucks
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...