I've cheated as well. The advantage is that she's still there, give her time - she decided to stay, her choice, if she was really that unhappy - believe me, she would not stay.
Number lady, or is it Numberlady, whatever. Give me an opinion based on your experience and the above quote.
Spouse announced affair in April, set to move in June after family vacation, on vacation announced she couldn't leave D7, didn't leave, announced desire to continue to "parent" with me but not "lovers" and has been home all along sleeping over one or two nights a week with OW. How lovely and what an ego boost. Sarcasm - my version of PMA - kidding
In the last 6 months I have heard lots of "I don't know what I want" etc. I have heard ILY. 'A' has been broken off by both parties more than once, only to be fanned back into flame after about 24hrs. Spouse living in spare bedroom.
I try to convince myself that if she wanted out she'd be gone. It just is harder than hell sometimes. In a talk a few weeks ago she even said "I'm not going anywhere". That seems to include our bed and my arms.
Speak oh wise one. Great Goddess of Numerology
Patience is not only a virtue, sometimes it is an impossibility.
