A couple days after she dropped the bomb we had a minor but significant incident at which point I told her exactly that, if she was no good than I didn't want her and she could go off and do whatever she wanted. Then I asked for her minivan key, gave her my truck key, and told her I was moving back to our hometown with my sons so they could be with their grandparents if she was going to split us up.
That wasn't a ploy. I was serious. At that point I thought this was over with a capital O, she was just stringing me along while she made other plans, etc. She saw I was serious, and she made the decision to stay and work on it 100%.
I'll check on Frank's stuff. Thanks for the referral.
How did you begin to feel things for your H again...if you don't mind my asking, and how long did it take?
You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. -- Inigo Montoya, 'The Princess Bride'
