If you don't mind my asking, how would you suggest I respond to this kind of stuff I'm getting from my wife (who cheated on me for 3 years with the same OM and was planning on divorcing me, breaking up our family--we have two sons, 14 and 10--and marrying the OM).
My W's general statements to me:
"I haven't felt anything for you for several years. I wanted to leave you and be OM's wife. I'm only ending it with him and staying because I believe it's the right thing to do, morally and for the children, but I'd rather be with him. I do care for you, but more as a generic family member than as a husband."
I mean, did you ever feel like you quit loving your H...and besides from just being a good husband and giving her space, with no pressure, what do you think I should do about her?
FWIW, she dropped that bomb on July 8, so I've been about two months in this sitch.
